So recently i have been contemplating getting out of the house and into the world. Already a few lovely people have been in touch regarding 'stepping out' but also thinking about the little things that i can do when in guy mode to make me feel more girly..
Then i stumbled upon this article today. Basically saying that even straight non tg men are taking to heels..
This for me poses and an interesting question.. Could i get away with wearing heels in guy mode?
Sure people will look, but maybe as a little more of a confidence booster for going into the world.
I get the fear as im sure many have before when starting out. What if's and buts. I think im a stronger person now than i was in the past, i could handle the looks , maybe even the odd comment but physical violence.
I cant hold my own. I have only ever been in 4 fights my entire life and most of them were at school when i was builled and stood up for myself. Even when people have tried to 'play' fight with me i would be defeated and rightfully so. Im happy not having the strength but this means that my fight or flight response is always flight.
There was a situation years ago when someone pulled a hammer our on me and some friends whilst we were out.. i went to run, but my female friend stood her ground and went to take him on. Fearless she is. I admire that but it could of ended badly. I still think about that day sometimes and with my older head i shudder at the thought.
I seem to have digressed here.. Thoughts on heels in guy mode? Or even what you wear?
For example i tend to wear womens jeans, not only are they girly they're more confortable :)
Katie
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